About Your Marriage: Things to Learn, Unlearn, and Relearn

Learning is a lifelong adventure and you cannot afford to be complacent, you need to continue to update and improve every day. This is very important, because if you’re not up to date, you can never be right.

Proverbs 24:3-7, Proverbs 14:1

WHAT TO LEARN

There are many things to know, there are many things to develop. Never overlook them, go and learn them, they will make your marriage better than you ever imagined. They are:

1. Communication. Someone said, “Most marriages go bad, mouth first.” If you can master the act of communication, you will be on top of all the issues of your marriage. Thinks and speaks well, knows the “when”, “how”, “what”, “why” and where of communication. Use the right moment, the right tone, the right expression, and win your spouse forever. Colossians 4:6

2. Languages ​​of love. Learn your spouse’s love languages ​​and speak them. What makes you feel loved? What excites you? What can awaken in him youthful fantasy? You need to study the man or woman you marry.

Proverbs 15:1, Proverbs 15:23

3. Family Finances. You need to become a family financial expert. You must master the art of making money legitimately. You must also learn how to properly manage your family’s finances. Learn about budgeting, saving, investing and, of course, improve your financial intelligence. Proverbs 12:24, Proverbs 31:13-22.

4. Parenting. You must learn the act of being a parent. You should know that having a child is easy for any mature woman, but raising a child is something else. Most mothers raise their children; great mother train her own. Proverbs 13:24, Proverbs 22:6.

5.Romance. Re-learn romance; learn how to send good and romantic love messages to your spouse. Relive your childhood or youth experiences. Make home a place for him or her, let your spouse feel happy that they married you.

Smile, laugh, play with him, sing for him, dress romantically just for him.

6. Sexual ability. She agreed that she has been making love to her spouse since she married him, but she needs to relearn how to stop all her complaining. There is something he or she wants that he or she is not getting, give it to him or her, be more creative, be more available and be more fantastic. Proverbs 5:15-19.