Do they really love men? "Malicious" Women?

Your strongest emotions are not just feelings, they are something you can use as a TOOL to make a man feel more attracted and connected to you.

These powerful emotions, such as anger, jealousy, and fear, are often repressed.

For example, most women have nowhere near men’s connection to our anger, and most men are terrified of their anger too!

We are even MORE terrified of these powerful emotions because we have never been taught to express them in a useful or satisfying way. We have been taught that these emotions are the only thing that will take us all away from us and that they will bring us nothing.

Then we see other women, whom some people might call “bitches,” and they are getting everything they want. We see that they are in touch with their strong emotions, such as anger and jealousy.

We think men love them BECAUSE they are “bitches”; It may be easy to assume that this is what men like (there have even been books written on this), but in reality that is not the case.

Men love these women because they feel like they are AUTHENTIC.

This has nothing to do with “drama”, but rather they see a woman who is in touch with her most powerful emotions as if she is comfortable with herself.

A man also sees a woman who is comfortable with her emotions as able to accept YOUR emotions.

You cannot convince a man that you will accept him by saying: he has to see that you love and accept every part of YOURSELF so that he believes that you will accept him. That is what creates the security for him to approach you.

It is very rare to find a woman who is in touch with her most powerful emotions and can use them in an exceptional way.

These strong emotions are powerful when you are aware of them, but they are even more powerful when you are NOT aware of them!

If these emotions are “stuck” in your subconscious and you are not aware of them, they will control your thoughts, your behavior and your life without you knowing.

This is a HUGE cause of relationship self-sabotage. It creates recurring patterns of behavior, so even if you find yourself in new situations with different men, these powerful emotions like anger and fear will cause you to react in the same usual way if you don’t accept them.

If you are covering up these powerful emotions by suppressing them and being extra sweet and “understanding”, or if you overexert or nurture yourself and focus on HIM, it is disturbing for a man because there is a disconnect there.

When this happens, his vibe, which he can FEEL, and his actions and words are incongruous.

If you are angry deep down, but are being extra sweet to a man, it will seem inauthentic.

This is what makes a man feel insecure around you. It weakens the attraction and connection and drives you away on a deep, unconscious level.

Men will often be MUCH more attracted to a woman who looks like a “bitch” than someone who looks like a “doormat”, and this is why.

We tend to think that being “nice” and “understanding” to a man is what will make him approach and feel safe, but if we hide our anger or other strong emotions, it actually does the opposite.

There may be anger underneath your fear or depression (depression is often anger that turns inward on yourself), so you really want to get in touch with all of your emotions and learn to express them in a way that brings you closer. to a man to you. , instead of pushing it away.