Network Marketing, Sex, Advertising

The mystery of sexual transmutation combined with network marketing and business.

Napoleon Hills’, Chapter 11, this is an area that I understand without a doubt. Perhaps it is because I am a woman, perhaps because I am aware and understand my own innate intuition. My husband often doesn’t understand why I pick up on the “vibes” that people give off. Take, for example, your boss. The first time I met him it was a surprise visit to my husband, so I was more in tune with my husband’s surprise at seeing me, I just didn’t understand what his boss was thinking.

Subsequent visits, things my husband has said happen at work, social gatherings – this man portrays the good host, outwardly for everyone to see that he is “nice.” I know that this man is threatened by my husband, not physically, but mentally. My husband knows things that this man does not, he does not accept advice or suggestions, because he perceives that this is a weakness. As time goes by, my husband now sees what I see; It has helped him to tread the waters in another way.

The transmutation of sex is the same. Look at all the advertising on television: a lot, actually most of it is about sex, because the ads know that SEX SELLS. Look at your corporate workforce. The front office receptionists are charming, slim and attractive young women, how many companies do we know that have the ‘plain Jane’ or the middle aged or senior receptionist? Men believe that people want to see “beautiful” people; they believe that a ‘beautiful’ person in front of their office perceives SEX, which equates to SUCCESS.

The television programs are the same, especially the Mesoamerican soap operas; Desperate Housewives, The Practice, Grey’s Autonomy, Boston Legal, House, ER, the list goes on; the stars of the shows are attractive people.

Susan Boyle, Britain’s Got Talent, if this woman wins, watch out for the makeover, she couldn’t stay the way she is, her looks won’t sell. This may be harsh, but remember when you first went on stage, everyone was shocked, this strange looking woman can’t / couldn’t sing, they were waiting to boo her off stage because she didn’t have the ‘look’.

New Zealand, our Prime Minister for nine years, Helen Clark. If you saw this woman when she started her political career, to what it is now, some men still think she is ‘beautifully challenged’. She has changed her style of dress, makeup, hairstyle. He listened to his advertising people, followed their advice, and improved his appearance. People, that is, men, still ridiculed her for her “appearance” rather than her political views.

Barrack Obama and his wife, Michelle, the main focus of his inauguration; what was his wife going to do and what was she wearing then. SEX SEX SEX: beauty sells and considers itself successful. UGLY, IMPERFECT is seen as a detriment.

When Hill wrote this book, the publicity in comparison from then to today has changed enormously, but it was still there. The way people portrayed themselves, used their sexual energy, and translated it into riches really is no different. The man is the man, you are the hunter, the woman is the gatherer. We support our men while they catch us. As Hill says, men who understand sex, love, and romance will achieve success as long as they use it all properly.

I think what Hill is saying and trying to make us aware has to do with his own perception of himself. If you see yourself as useless, less than, not “beautiful”, then this is what you project and transmute to the outside world. Having faith in yourself is the first thing you need to develop. Make the most of what you have. Short people wear heels, tall people wear flats. No matter what we should proudly project who and what we are SEXY SUCCESSFUL POWERFUL we are PERFECT AS WE ARE; PROJECT IT – TRANSMUTE IT.

I know people’s perception of ‘cleaners’, whether they are office, domestic, self-employed or employed, who are poor, of low socioeconomic status. Remember the cleaners we see on a daily basis as we go about our business in the malls and malls.

Script; A potential client needs a cleaning job done at his house. Throughout the discussions, she mentions that her current cleaner is leaving because she now had a “real” job. Hmmm … her perception is what … that cleaning, making money cleaning houses, operating a cleaning business is not a ‘real’ job, it is not worthy, it is not successful, but she requires the service.

To overcome this we have to transmute into the world the security in ourselves, pride, knowledge and know-how of what to do, so when we see these people we will not be thinking – poor they are only cleaners, we will be thinking, well with them, doing a job well, earning money, they are successful and intelligent people.

Network marketing is the same thing, how many of you out there stumble, try to organize your thoughts when people ask ‘what are you doing’. Wait for the other person, figuratively speaking, to run a hundred miles in the opposite direction. To be successful in this world you have to “get over it.” Nobody has a problem saying; I am an employee, clerk, cafeteria assistant, receptionist, manager, CEO, secretary, or sales assistant. The same can be said for network marketing too, being honest with yourself first makes it easy to be honest with the world.

Learn how to transmute positive sexual energy and you’ll understand how to move on, create your plans, and then reap the bountiful rewards you so highly deserve.