Life lessons from my perspective to share with my son or daughter

As we enter the world, we are completely dependent on our parents and our own survival depends on it. Our instincts tell us when we are hungry, when we need to be changed, and when we need to sleep. To convey these needs to our parents, we were born with the ability to cry to receive the care we need. This is the beginning of the learning process, as we are both learning in the days, weeks, months, and years after we are born. Our parents learn to care for us through our interaction with them, and we learn to communicate with them to get their attention. There is something very special about the bond that is established between a mother and her baby. Women are really special in the way they take care of their baby and they are always very aware of their baby’s needs and are very sensitive to them and give themselves completely to take care of them. It all starts when a woman conceives and for the next nine months a woman goes through so many emotions and feelings as she carries her precious baby inside her body, making sure everything goes well. It really is a miracle the whole process and women are so brave and so beautiful when they are going through their pregnancy.

I remember when Matthew was born and how excited and grateful he was to have this wonderful opportunity to be a father. I realized that when our son was born and the nurse gently placed him in my wife’s arms, our lives were incredibly changed for the better and now I was realizing the tremendous responsibility that lay ahead of me, which I gladly accepted and was very proud of my little one. guy. The birth of our child is the highlight of our lives and we are richer for having him in our lives.

When I think about my childhood, I remember how much my parents did for my sisters and I when we were young and how much they loved us. They always made personal sacrifices for us to be provided for and for us to only know safety and comfort. They always made us feel protected. I learned a lot from my parents and I want to share the same things I learned as a child with my son. I call the most important things that we must make part of our daily lives, life lessons and by following these ideals we will find that our lives will be more satisfying and our interactions with others more beneficial.

When I think of my son and how much we love him and want to help him, I will make it imperative that we train him well with these life lessons that I will list and incorporate into our daily lives and they are as follows:

Life lessons:

1) Make it a point to smile every day.

2) Love and respect your parents.

3) Love and respect yourself.

4) Respect your teachers.

5) Find joy and goodness in every little thing.

6) Enjoy your school days and always live to do your best.

7) Learn to listen well and always listen carefully before acting.

8) Make it a point to read a book every chance you get.

9) Do your homework before playing.

10) Always stay cool, calm and collected no matter what happens. (my dad’s wisdom)

11) Bloom where you are planted. (my dad’s wisdom)

12) Learn to go to bed early and wake up early.

13) Learn to appreciate everything and never take anything for granted.

14) Always learn to share with others.

15) Never be afraid to express yourself.

16) Always be true to yourself.

17) Learn to take on challenges.

18) When the going gets tough, always cheer up and never give up.

19) Learn to find things to do that make you happy and that suit your personality.

20) Always treasure the memories of your parents and loved ones who have passed away.

21) Always look on the positive side of things.

22) There will be times when you will feel bad and need help. Never refuse such help.

23) Always be available to take care of others.

24) Always remember proper hygiene.

25) Learn to forgive and always show compassion and understanding.

26) Learn to reach out and make friends.

27) Learn to appreciate music and try to develop an interest in playing an instrument.

28) Learn to speak a second language.

29) Learn to congratulate others.

30) Learn to appreciate math and science.

31) Always learn to follow the rules and always be safety conscious.

32) Learn to be responsible with your money.

33) Never refuse to help someone in need.

34) Always be courteous.

35) Learn to appreciate art and try to develop the skill of drawing because it is something beautiful.

36) Learn to always treat everyone fairly and try to never have favorites.

37) Learn to find a sport you like and do your best to excel at it.

38) Learn to always be prepared.

39) Always do your best.

40) Learn to respect your employer.

41) Always try to develop an entrepreneurial spirit.

42) Learn to have faith in God and look to him for strength and encouragement.

43) Learn to be in contact with nature.

44) When the time is right, never be afraid to ask that special girl to be your girlfriend.

45) Always learn to communicate with others.

46) Always make sure you are honest and upright in everything you do.

47) Never allow yourself to be taken advantage of.

48) When the time is right and you and your spouse have discussed it, always take it very seriously when planning a family.

49) Always be responsible for your actions.

50) Learn to live your life one day at a time.

51) Never learn hatred and prejudice.

52) Learn to spend time with your loved ones.

53) Treasure your friendships.

54) Learn to give thanks.

55) Learn to always be productive and make your life have a purpose.

56) Learn to be patient.

57) Learn first aid so you can help someone in distress.

58) Teach your child to ride a bike.

59) Learn to always be there for your spouse and children.

60) Learn to believe in yourself.

61) Never allow your disabilities to diminish your spirit.

62) Take advantage of your strengths and improve your weaknesses.

63) Always maintain a good healthy attitude.

64) Never be afraid to dream.

65) Treat every day as if it were your last.

As I bond with my son and my family, these are some of the things that I feel are important and worth discussing with my son. I want to teach you and give you the knowledge you need to go out into the world to live your life and be the best you can be.