Want Vs Need – The difference between want and need

There is a big difference between wanting what you want and needing what you want, and both are just emotional states that you need to be aware of. If you are on the path to attracting what you want, you must be careful not to allow yourself to fall into the negative emotional state of need. There is a horrible and vicious mentality among humans that many of the things we have we need when in reality, there are only a few things we really need and the rest are things we want. There is nothing wrong with wanting, however allowing yourself to believe that you need something will only prevent you from getting it.

We must know what we want, and we must have a passion to have what we want. There is nothing wrong with having this passion or the desire to have it. However, the problem for many people is that they fall into a mentality of need. A need mentality will not get us what we want. In fact, it will begin to push it away, making it harder and harder for us to get what we want. When we work with the law of attraction, we need to have a burning desire for what we want. This is the emotional engine that brings us those things we want. Our ability to put positive emotions into our visualizations, as well as a strong and powerful passion to acquire, is directly related to whether we get what we want. However, we must remember not to take it seriously. Wanting is a very powerful thing, but becoming so attached to what we want only causes emotional distress.

A great example of want vs. the need that I think you can relate to would be in relationships. Which would you prefer? Someone who calls you just to say hello and wants to spend time with you, but doesn’t get mad when you can’t. Someone who just enjoys your company when he’s with you, but is totally okay with being alone and with his own life. Or would you prefer someone who calls you constantly to find out where you are and when you’ll get back together? Someone who gets upset when you can’t do it and berates you for weeks. The kind of person who needs you in their life so that they feel like they have validation for who they are. The first person was probably your choice. We all enjoy someone who enjoys us for us, but is strong enough in themselves to the point that they don’t need us to validate them and who they are. Someone who is needy just makes us want to run away, and the law of attraction works the same way.

The more you feel like you have to have something and the more emotion you put into holding on to that thing, the more you push it away. This happens because you become so obsessed with it having to be a certain way that you create stress over the idea of ​​not having it. If instead you start to be okay with not having what you want, but wanting it anyway, you’ll be that much closer to getting what you want. Need creates a lack mentality in your life instead of an abundance mentality. Coming from a position of need is not a position of power and options. The sooner you realize that the universe will give you what you want and that it can come in a million different ways, the closer you will be to creating a mindset of wanting a life you control rather than a position of control. need and have to have it.

Necessity causes us to become attached to a specific idea or result. Attaching to anything always causes emotional distress. When we try to hold on to something, we put ourselves in a position to hurt ourselves when that thing is gone, and since nothing is forever, everything has a beginning and an end. Sticking to the idea that you have to have a specific car will not open the door to other opportunities to have another similar car or another better car than the one you wanted but just didn’t know was there. We have to be aware of our need and attachment to everything in life. Necessity pushes things away and causes unwanted angst and sadness in our lives. Instead, learn to open yourself to possibility and potential. Let the universe work through you like an open conduit. Trust that what you want will come to you, or better, and the universe will deliver it to you.