Attachment is fine for Twin Flames

I have read in the Twin Flame literature that it is important to release attachment to an outcome with our twins.

Until recently I couldn’t verbalize exactly why that principle didn’t sit well with me. It hit me the other day in a way that I would like to share with you.

I’ll offer my own opinion and you’ll know right away if it resonates with you or not.

For twin flames that have met in their physical bodies, it is NOT correct that they should release an attachment to the full physical reunion.

If the twin flames have met in the physical, and if they both know/feel/perceive that this life is their last incarnation, it is destined for them to fully meet in this last physical life. For those who would choose a romantic partner with their twin, they must have the vision of that during the first challenging trials and tribulations with the twin. Whether one or both twins are aware of the magnitude of the relationship, at least the one who is aware of this special connection has a duty to keep the vision toward the full reunion.

My thoughts on this matter are the result of living this experience and getting information as I go.

I felt there was a lot of fate involved from the moment I began to understand the nature of my relationship with the twin. Even when the pain of separation was painful to the point of injury; I felt this was true. As our non-physical helpers worked with me over the course of our first six months together, they not only taught me that it was okay for me to work with twins on a soul level, but they also taught me that it was my responsibility. It is the obligation of the awakened twin to help the other half.

Like everything, we have freedom of choice. We can decide to quit. Many do. It is understandable why. But if you choose not to give up and hold onto the vision of the last reunion… if you can learn to bear the pain that comes and goes, and if you’re willing to learn more patience than you thought imaginable, it’s your duty to help yourself. himself and twin.

My guides taught me that unlike other relationships where a healer must ask for permission (such as energy work), consent is not necessary in the twin flame relationship as the two of you are already one in essence. of your link. You don’t need to ask permission; that would be like asking yourself for permission. You don’t ask, you know you have to.

I’m talking about working with the soul/higher self and the guides of the partner. Common courtesy applies to twin flame associations, so when you talk to your twin face to face or on the phone, of course you seek permission and talk to them like you would anyone else, but with your soul guiding you. As you nurture the relationship, you experience a shift: you realize you ARE soul, you no longer think about it, you speak effortlessly from your higher self/soul. It becomes automatic.

You realize that you are not a mind that knows that you have a soul; that you turn around and appreciate that you are SOUL that is spending time in a human body. This is an extraordinarily rare phenomenon to be aware of and to have met your twin flame. It feels like the pinnacle of all the experiences you can have while in human form.

Getting there is difficult. This is not an easy task for either twin. Eventually they will both be aware of their connection. At the beginning of the physical relationship, a twin (more commonly the female it seems) is aware and has the demanding task of helping her partner to be aware on their physical level of the nature of their bond.

I believe that those with a physically manifested twin feel the attraction to their twin for most, if not all, of their embodied life. They may not have words for it, or for fear of being teased, they may not speak it, but they feel it. It is literally as if a human mother gave birth to twins: a boy and a girl. The twins grew up in their mother’s womb and bonded so closely that they shared everything…they communicated without words, they loved and cared and each knew exactly what the other was feeling and experiencing because they shared the same experience.

At birth, their biological mother gave them up for adoption. Each twin went to separate families. Their adoptive parents were unaware that they were welcoming a ‘twin’ into their home…they innocently told the children that they were a single birth. Over the years, the parents assure the child that they do not have a twin in the world, but the child continues to feel something. Something inexplicable. They feel that someone is missing. They know their parents aren’t lying, but they can’t shake the feeling that they have a special someone out there somewhere. It’s not that they “want or desire” one; they “have” one. There is no right or wrong, just a difference. You will know what your case is.

Typically the child feels like the ‘lost twin’ at special moments; birthdays, holidays, especially beautiful days and particularly difficult days. When he feels joy in his heart or sadness in the depths of his being; he feels (no matter how deeply depressed that belief may be buried) that there is only one soul who would understand them. The bond is so strong that despite everyone telling the boy that this kind of relationship is not possible, the boy clings to an inexplicable element of faith. & he trusts that one day they will find his twin, his “person” and that his twin is looking for them.

We have life experiences that we must have for many reasons, even if we are destined to meet our twin flame in this lifetime. We must have had numerous experiences in preparation. These life experiences can lead us to the point where we are no longer sure that the soul we feel in our hearts is really with us on this planet. We are taught in many ways that “good” is good enough. Many (myself included) are open to whatever the universe brings and teaches; but while we were resolving to never “settle” I had also concluded that perhaps our most perfect partners are not incarnated with us and are watching over and guiding us from the other side. We release our expectation of meeting “him or her” but we never stop. believing that if the universe intends for us to meet in the physical, we will know because we will not wonder… WE KNOW.

My life experiences did not lead my twin to be anything less than ultimately successful. Beyond that, I’ve come to believe that I’m not supposed to let go of all attachment to the end result. This is due to an experience I had months after meeting my twin.

In the depths of the initial confusion and pain with the twin, I was shown a vision. While I do often have visions, being a psychic and healer I do have visions of one thing or another on a regular basis. It’s not a new concept, but the visions are rarely about me, they are given mainly to provide information I need to help others.

The first time I was given a “vision” of what would be a likely outcome for me and my twin…I was driving my car. I was listening to music and had managed to get it out of my head for a while. I had spent weeks and weeks working on letting go and forgetting it, that’s what the ‘experts’ said about letting go of expectations, letting go, letting go, letting go!

But my guides had another plan. They put a vision in my head. I was shocked and said (literally out loud) “Stop. I must have made that up. Why would you show me that?”

A soft energy, a knowledge filtered smoothly through the car “You’re not making this up. Watch again when you’re ready. There’s no rush, watch when you’re comfortable.”

I allowed myself to look again and saw the same scene… it looked like a movie. It would stop when he looked away and start when he had the guts to look at the screen.

Again in severe distress I said, “Please… stop. Why is this happening? Why would you show me this? I’m starting to feel better; I don’t want to see things like this… it hurts more.”

They told me: “You are shown a probable outcome, so you understand why this is happening.”

This affected me deeply. For days I waged an internal battle. “I must have made this up, but WHY would I make up something so confusing? Why would I have made up something that didn’t seem possible under the circumstances with the twin?”

This is a critical point. Much of the information in books and on the internet is pretty consistent: the advice is to remove the attachment, not to project a specific outcome…

It took me maybe a month or two to finally get it. This is MY twin flame experience. I was shown this vision of our future with extraordinary purpose, so that I would not let go of the pinnacle of results: the complete reunion in our physical bodies.

I have worked harder than I can communicate to release the desire and need of my twin’s physical body, I have learned to trust my own soul and his. I trust the guidance and support I receive from non-physical beings who support us on this journey.

What I realized recently, when suggested to me by a dear friend, is that it is not correct that twins should be separated from an outcome. In reality, it is having full confidence IN that outcome that gives the conscious twin the strength, fortitude, and grace under the most extreme conditions to continue to love and nurture each other through the difficult aspects of this fascinating fusion.

I have known that this is my last incarnation since I was a child. I was told certain details about the choice of my soul mate in this regard. I did not ask or ponder for this information, it came to me in a loud voice that could not be ignored. The same night came to me, the same conversation, in which I was told that it was not only possible, but that it was my duty and my responsibility to work with the twin at the soul level and continue to work with myself, so that reunification would take place. . They (the spiritual teachers) were clear that if I was willing to do the work, they would teach me what I needed to know.

I am not here to argue with the opinions of others. I can only speak for the information I receive about our relationship.

Trying to find out anything about the weather or how the trip will unfold is silly, I’ve come to see that. Cycle after cycle I become clearer. I struggle at times to release all of this to the universe and let her handle it how she wants. Liberating is not the same as being detached. Attached means keeping the faith, trusting and believing, but letting someone else (the universe and our souls) handle the details.

They gave me a gift: they showed me what was possible. They showed me what was intended to happen if I/we simply listened and did what we were told/shown to do. While they did not give me the luxury or comfort of being shown what the path/journey would be; nor was I shown anything referencing the timeline, I was shown the most likely outcome and I refuse to post it. I remain attached in faith. They wouldn’t have shown him to me if I wasn’t supposed to see him and have the most complete trust and faith in him and us.