How to Look Energetic and Popular for Game Girls in Party & Clubs

If you are a regular at parties and clubs, you know exactly that they have a very different matrix than other social gathering places, such as a coffee shop. There everything goes very fast and dynamic, so it would be difficult for a person who is the first time to get along with the environment.

And what happens when you see a group of beautiful girls dancing quite a distance from your spot?

It’s hard enough to feel like you belong there, it’s even weirder to test your gaming skills on such strange terrain. That is why there are only a few people who can generate game results at parties. Those who are already in the know will continue to win and double their scorecards, leaving behind those who lose and those who know nothing.

Personally, I don’t think there is a perfect strategy for club scenes. What we often call “perfect” usually just means one offers more hits than the other. Even after that, you still need to identify with the strategy you are going to take and improvise as you go with it. Just because it works for one person doesn’t mean it works for you.

However, in my experience, there are at least some basic rules of thumb that could easily be applied to everyone looking to improve their charisma in clubs.

Here are some tips to build your energy for parties and dance floors:

– I’m a little late. Seeing people who already like music would definitely give you a push to get into the same tune. If you arrive before the party starts, you’ll get used to the tension and inactivity, making it more difficult to ‘change’ to the party atmosphere at that time.

– Greet and gesture to workers as they enter the room. Bouncers, bartenders, dancers, DJs, they all ‘own’ the place. Just a simple “Hey, that’s weird!” and “Looking crowded tonight” would boost your mood even more. You need to build enough momentum so that you can feel as confident as you need to.

– Start touring the place, talking to any interesting person. While some people call this “vibration”, I call it “bouncing” as the idea is to bounce all points to have small talk with people you find interesting. You don’t need long conversations, just three to five exchanges, but they happen almost everywhere.

You know you’re doing it right when you feel somewhat invincible compared to other mortals according to the simple structure there.

That is what I usually call as the bright state.

Not only will you be seen as the most popular guy in the room, but you’ll also have an automatic work urge that pushes you to approach girls until your legs give out. As simple as it may seem, the three steps above will help you accomplish amazing things in your clubbing adventure.

Have fun!