Rebound Relationships: Pros and Cons – How to Build From There and Reconnect with the Ex

Why is the rebound ratio problematic? Here are several reasons why:

* You feel vulnerable due to your recent breakup.
* You are eager to know if you are attractive to others besides your ex. It is not uncommon for the victim after a breakup to feel sad and depressed. Some reasons are because the victim may feel unattractive or less desirable to the opposite sex. Many, after a breakup, may go looking for one night to show that they still have the right contact with the human race (be it male or female). That can be a bad idea, especially if it is not safe.
* You can also make a wrong decision due to an emotional crisis.
* You may not pay attention to the new person’s failures or problems because you are eager to move on and therefore close your eyes to possible future problems.

Now, on many occasions, I have seen where the victim of the breakup could find someone else and decide that she could marry. They also feel that since they are moving forward and the other person is hiding their true color, they may feel overwhelmingly positive about that new relationship and make the wrong decisions. It’s okay to meet people and make new friends, but take control of your long-term commitments for a while.

Now, you have mastered the entire dating scene, you have dated, you have met the outside world and you have seen what it is like. You haven’t been in contact with the ex at all, which is very good, and you should get a good round of applause for that.

I could say something that might make you want to slap me or eager to know what I have to suggest. With those few weeks or months without talking to the ex, I’ll share with you the best way to reconnect. Now, not reconnecting in a way to hope for total reconciliation, but reconnecting for the good old days. If something else comes out, then fine. If you want to avoid contact with your ex at all costs, then keep dating and hope to find the right piece of jewelry. This is what it’s all about, right?

Reconnecting with the ex:
How to do that without showing some desperation on your part. Well, there are a few ways, but once again, make sure it’s the right one for you. Sometimes after hanging out with a few people, you might think that the weed is too ugly on the other side, and that you just go out once or twice and jump ship and want to come back thinking there’s nothing else out there. Well, give it time, learn and live your new single life. Don’t rush, take your time.

Like I said, if you really want to get back with your ex, give him at least 35 to 50 days apart for the healing process and also to rebuild your level of self-esteem. My question for you. How you feel?

I hope you don’t feel desperate at all, right? Because if you do, you will need another 2-3 weeks of appointments. Remember, once you reach the level of nonchalance, it means that you can live with or without the ex, that’s when you know that you are ready to embark on an open conversation with the ex.

Remember, you know the other person and that other person knows you well. So it’s not like you can act confident, or confident when in reality you are not. They will feel the fear in your voice or the kind of question you ask them about who they dated during your breakup. If you are a top-tier actor / actress, then perhaps you can act very confidently and have a clean, mature conversation. For the rest of the 99.99999999% of the population who can’t really hide their true emotions, I would just call ONLY when fully healed. Graduating from this step is crucial if you want to be successful on your first phone meeting with your ex. Stay calm and confident. Everything should be fine from there.

Once the phone conversation has gone well, it means that there is no pressure, try to have a fun meeting, not to talk about the relationship, but just an innocent meeting. The purpose is for that person to see you physically, with your changes. The purpose is to ignite the spark that was lost between the two of you.

Now that you’ve been through these changes, you’re ready to show the other you, the new you. Then they will see you as someone more exciting, more fun, more different than your original. Then you will see a drastic difference in their behavior towards you because they see you as someone more attractive and sexy.

I spoke briefly in this article about how to get her from the phone call to a face-to-face meeting. Now many are wondering, well, how do I do that? Well, read my next article to get that answer.

Happy thanksgiving everyone