The pickup artist’s ‘imaginary action reversal’ technique

I have to tell you that I constantly hear guys talking about calibration.

But what does calibration REALLY mean in relation to dating?

You can open the dictionary and easily look up a dozen different definitions for the word.

But there is one in particular that I think all Pickup Artists should memorize:

calibrate [kal-uh-breyt] -verb

-determine the correct range of (an artillery gun, a mortar, etc.) by observing where the fired projectile hits.

Please read it again because it is a perfect analogy for what we are trying to achieve in a seduction.

All the gurus and their mothers make reference to calibration, but they tend to be extremely vague when they talk about how to IMPROVE IT.

I’ve heard all kinds of nonsense, from “You just have to practice more” to “Calibration can’t be taught, that’s why naturals are naturals.”

Such shit. If I could put on a sound effect right now, it would be that annoying Family Feud buzzer.

Of course the calibration can be improved! And I’m going to show you a technique that will do it.

Is called:

‘Reversal of imaginary action’

In short, it’s very simple…

Before starting a risky topic of conversation, sending a text, making a phone call, seeking a kiss, or any other variety of actions you might take with a woman, it helps to IMAGINE that whatever you are about to do …she does it to you instead!

So ask yourself:

“Did I just feel MORE or LESS attracted to her?”

And finally, let your intuitive response guide your decision whether or not to make the move.

Think about it…

Who is the best judge you have to determine if a stock is ‘attractive’ or not?

You guessed it, it’s YOU.

I know men are from Mars and women are from Jupiter or whatever, but we sure have a lot in common and one of those things is definitely attraction.

Behavior that normally turns me off usually turns a woman off. And behavior that usually turns me on usually turns a woman on.

We are not as different as society makes us believe.

So if you want to take your own calibration to the next level, here’s a quick rundown of the steps:

1. You feel the urge to say or do something that relates to her

2. You imagine her doing it or saying it to YOU

3. You pay attention to your own emotional response (to the image) and let the quality of your response determine whether or not you continue with the action.

Very easy.

Practicing this exercise is simple, fun, and an amazingly effective way to develop an accurate calibration.

have fun,

Julian

PS: Depending on the situation, the amount of TIME you have to use the technique is a factor. You don’t want to interrupt the flow of a good conversation if you don’t have to.

Just trust that the more comfortable you are with reversing imaginary action, the faster you will do it, and eventually it will become something you will always be subliminally aware of.